(Sorry ... very long & mushy post!)
Yep, true to our fashion, we celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary by eating a really simple but nice (read : budget) family lunch (just the 3 of us) at one of our favourite Halal Banquet foodcourt at City Square Mall.
Haha, I know. Who celebrates their anniversary in a foodcourt, anyway?! Haha ... apparently we do!
We had grand plans to go for a quiet date, maybe a lame movie or al-cheapo lunch or even a simple cup of coffee (& toast), as long as its just the two of us. But as usual, my mum bailed on us! Errm ... why am I not surprised! She was supposed to take care of Ryan for a couple of hours that day so that we can have some badly-needed & rare couple time, but as usual it did not materialise (for whatever reason lah!). Well, that's our usual story!
Well, no matter! Like I told Hubby its not what gifts we bought for each other, not which restaurant we go and eat ... none of that matters! All that really matters, is that we spend the day together, as a loving couple ... being grateful & thankful for the many blessings that that we have had over the years. Yep, we're a couple that's had a lot of ups & downs these few years of marriage, but we're still together today as we did 13 years ago.
I guess, what we don't need ... is for people to define what a good marriage we have. Our marriage is far from perfect (no sirree!) but I dare say we work at it, every single day. We argue & fight like any other ordinary-warring couple. We have disagreements & disillusions but we know we love each other, no matter what. We agree to disagree but we know we are working as a team for the sake of the betterment of our family.
And since Ryan's timely arrival, we work very very hard at being better people, better parents to our little blessing from God. With God's permission, it is our hope to provide for Ryan a safe & loving environment, a good example for our dear son to emulate, when he himself has his own family in the future. This ... I can only hope & pray!
We know we have been greatly blessed!
To my loving Hubby, Steven :
Happy Anniversary, My Dear Darling!
You have been a wonderful Husband
But You have been an even better Father to our son, Ryan
Though we seek clearer skies in our luck
Though we want a unburdened future
We have been blessed & we know that!
I know God smiles on us, I know He does ...
Sometimes it doesn't seem that way ...
But I know we have a lot to be thankful for ...
I know we have a lot to be grateful for.
Thank you .....
Thank you for loving me, for loving our Ryan
Thank you for taking care of me, for taking care of our Ryan
Thank you for protecting me, for protecting our Ryan
Thank you for being You.
Although others may doubt you
Although others may question your capabilities
Know that I don't!
Ryan & me, will always support & love you
No matter which way You choose to turn
No matter which path You choose to take
We will always love you
We will always support you
We will always root for you
We will always be here for you!
Thank you for everything
Thank you for marrying me, that fateful day in 1997
Thank you for giving me hope
Thank you for making me your wife.
No matter what the future holds,
It has been an incredible journey.
I pray that we can be together in this lifetime & in the next
I love you ... now & always!
Errm, here are some pics, taken at the foodcourt ... ; )
Ryan, with his endles slew of funny faces ...
Steamed (White) Chicken rice - Ryan's usual choice.
The tastiest Chicken Chiar Sew Kway Teow Noodle for Hubby (our favourite).
Oh, I had Spicy Mee Goreng that day (but no photo).
Both photos of Steven were taken by his son, Ryan.
Hubby dearest, buying food for our family.